I'm not sure it's necessary to know what's in Dumb and Dumber to know that it's dumb. If a kid comes up with a cultural reference you don't understand, question him on it. When he explains the context and the significance as he understands it, discuss whether this is a healthy thing for him to be fascinated by, and what messages he may be learning from such fare.
I don't have any real experience working with kids that way, but ISTM that expressing uninformed but sincere interest counts for as much (maybe more?) with them as being "in" on all their jokes and influences.
I've noticed that I can maintain a general working knowledge of pop culture by reading movie reviews and paying attention to conversations and such. When a conversation comes up about a movie I haven't seen (which is all but about two or three a year, maximum), I can say, "I've heard about that movie. Is it true that..." and guess what? Intelligent conversation ensues! Even if I'm wrong about something, in the process of explaining and discussing it, the people involved (including me) are evaluating and thinking about it.
I don't have any real experience working with kids that way, but ISTM that expressing uninformed but sincere interest counts for as much (maybe more?) with them as being "in" on all their jokes and influences.
I've noticed that I can maintain a general working knowledge of pop culture by reading movie reviews and paying attention to conversations and such. When a conversation comes up about a movie I haven't seen (which is all but about two or three a year, maximum), I can say, "I've heard about that movie. Is it true that..." and guess what? Intelligent conversation ensues! Even if I'm wrong about something, in the process of explaining and discussing it, the people involved (including me) are evaluating and thinking about it.
~Jane, a Bonsai Ent
Words couldn't express it. They wouldn't express it; they'd mutiny first and become babble. -- James Blaylock, The Last Coin
Words couldn't express it. They wouldn't express it; they'd mutiny first and become babble. -- James Blaylock, The Last Coin



